We can’t wait to meet our ideal partner but when he or she finally enters our life, we get scared.
• Are we going to be good enough for them?
• What if they find out that we are not perfect, etc.?
Our subconscious mind constantly wants to protect us from getting hurt. Sometimes it even persuades us that they are just too nice and too good to be true, so we are constantly waiting for them to make a mistake, to fail, so we can justify our fears and move on to the next one. How silly is that, right? Unfortunately, I am talking from experience, I have been there, done that.
How about you? Can you relate to this feeling?
If you have low self-esteem, you need to work on it. Accepting and loving yourself is essential. You can’t rely on others, waiting for them to please you, to reassure you that you are worthy. Otherwise, it might happen that when you are in a relationship, you put the other person on a pedestal, while you constantly think that you are not good enough for them.
Is it never too late to change!
The only question is:
WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO BRING INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR POTENTIAL PARTNER?
• A beautiful person inside and out that is totally aware of his or her qualities and values?
• Or someone that is secretly hoping that their future partner will finally make them feel worthy?